Writer’s Log 002: Growing as a Book Reviewer

Last weekend, I spent most of my free time on the screened-back porch reading, sipping on mint green tea, and listening to the birds sing their harmonious song. I couldn’t think of a better way to spend the weekend. I was right where I needed to be and the time spent also gave me new reflections on matters of story-telling and writing I’ve been thinking on of late.

For me, I’m finding there needs to be a balance of reading and writing. Maybe it is so for other people. I know I want to be more deliberate with my writing and take more time on fine tuning my thoughts on paper or typing. Like writing book reviews, for example. Writing reviews is an art form and I want to spend more time in developing a more structured, concise and enticing summary of my thoughts on stories. Not all stories I read inspire me to do so or at times, I find myself just wanting to get the job done for whatever reason I’m feeling. Maybe it is because I’m a mood reader? That is not where I want to be in my journey of writing book reviews. Being honest with my struggles on the endeavor and admitting I need to do better at writing reviews is the first step.

I tend to absorb reading books at a fast pace- at times, and I make reviewing goals that quite frankly, aren’t sustaining and that is largely part of the problem. Slowing down would be best, though it can be hard when a story grabs you and swallows you whole. Maybe it is not that part that needs slowing down. Spending more time with writing the review and not rushing is the direction to follow. I’m usually reflecting on a story as I’m reading anyway. Hmm…

It’s funny, I know the ends and outs of writing book reviews and I take notes. Sometimes, I take pages and pages of notes. Alas, oftentimes, I’m not addressing or reflecting all the key questions to ask myself while sitting down to write the review. My goodness, that was hard to openly admit. It is time to step out of the boundaries I’ve been stuck in too often and do something amazing. One has to keep growing as a writer after-all.

Another thought is that authors deserve the reviewers best when it comes to critiquing the their work. Not only that, reviews are for the readers you are writing to and readers should know if they want to read the book or not based on your analysis of the story.

Do you oftentimes have the same struggles when it come to writing book reviews? Do you want to do a better job? Do you want to grow in your craft of writing book reviews or writing in general?

Stephanie

Writer’s Log 001: Just Write

I know many writers-published or unpublished-who have those stories that are still in the writing phase and may have been so for quite a few years. They may work on them regularly or may come back to them years later. Maybe those stories are what we can surmise as “pet projects.” Ones that may never be shown to the public. I often hear people say they write stores as a sort of hobby and have no intention of publishing their work. Whatever the case, there is nothing wrong in that of course. People write stories for all sorts of reasons and what a worthwhile endeavor. I suspect that there are unpublished works out there that if they were to come to light, they would be those unforgettable stories people would talk about through the ages. The ones that stay with us always.

Quite a few years ago now, I expressed on Facebook-I no longer use Facebook- a new story I was beginning and thought perhaps someday I might publish it. I was and still am excited about the story I created. I believe that may have been the first time I shared to the public that I write stories. I cannot say for certain though. When I did post about it, I had a lady-who’ve I’ve never met in person- in so many words comment that most people don’t get past the first two chapters of their story. I don’t know the motive behind that comment or what she was thinking when she expressed her unsolicited opinion. I don’t even remember who she was and that is probably a good thing. When I read her comment all those years ago, I was a bit taken back. Whatever this person’s reasons were, it is an odd thing to say to someone who is sharing news they’re thrilled about. Despite being taken back, I know that statistically she was right but in the big scheme of things, why does that matter? I know the answers in my head that people would say why it matters. I can think of many reasons why. In the last few years, I’ve been in a totally different mind space about writing stories and why I write stories in general. I used to dream of becoming a world renown author since I was a kid. I loved and still love the written word and the adventures they inspire and evoke. To this very day, I play our scenes in my head to possibly get on paper. I remember in the early nineties when my dad gave my sister and I a floppy disk. I was over the moon excited. I began writing these short stories and my protagonist’s name was always Jennifer. She was always on some sort of adventure or caught up in drama. That subject is for another post.

Thinking back to the lady’s comment on Facebook -for some reason I thought of this recently, which I had not thought of since it happened-I chuckle and think how silly it was. I’m happy to report, she was exceedingly wrong in my case but it doesn’t really matter because I don’t write for validation or approval from others. Plus, so what if a person(s) has only written two chapters? The important thing is that they actually wrote something regardless of word count or completion. I’m here to defend those writers who have only written two chapters. That is their personal business and theirs alone until they decide otherwise.

Something else came to mind about writing when I began this blog post. I follow a few YouTubers that talk about the structures of writing and give advice on how to incorporate them. Oftentimes, I see comments from writers or inspiring writers who are so hard on themselves. They are stuck in fear and negativity to press forward. They worry so much about what others will think of their writing, they’ve talked themselves into not writing at all or they’ve put up a mental block that keeps them from writing. Or they obsessively watch these videos on how to write in hopes that it will inspire them to press forward. They’ve openly and honestly admitted that fact and then words of encouragement or expressed sentiments from others follow.

The reasons why I am sharing these two experiences is to say that if you are a writer-or a beginner writer- and you have unfinished work whether it be from self-doubt or from negativity from others-don’t allow discouragement to keep you from writing. Maybe reevaluate why you are writing in the first place and definitely ignore the unsolicited comments from people you would most likely not take advice from to begin with. Even if you don’t like what you wrote, it is not a disaster or unfixable. We learn and grow from what we deem as “bad writing”. Put one word in front of the other and see where it leads you. You’ll never know where unless you travel the unknown.

At the risk of repeating myself, people write for all sorts of reasons. If, publishing your stories is not your destination, then that is the right road traveled for you. If you’ve only written two chapters, that is okay. Maybe revisit it again one day or not. Perhaps just those two chapters was meant to be.

Write what you want to read. Write what you know. Write what you are feeling, good or bad. Write what you love. Write to discover. Write what inspires you. Write with purpose. Be you and no one else.

Just write.

Stephanie Hopkins

Image of the Month: Spring

Photo by Stephanie Hopkins

Spring won’t let me stay in this house any longer! I must get out and breathe the air deeply again. – Gustav Mahler

I love the colors and new blooms that spring brings and how they present new beginnings. I’m blessed to live in a beautiful neighborhood that has walking trails. There are so many beautiful sceneries and it’s wonderful to see so many people enjoy the neighborhood as well. You often see people walking their dogs, kids riding their bikes, fishing at the pond, feeding the ducks and families walking together. Looking forward to the weather warming up even more to get outdoors more often. -Stephanie Hopkins

February’s Image of the Month: Dante Gabriel Rossetti – Proserpine

Be sure to take a look at January’s Image of the Month: By the Water’s Edge. I include half of a poem I have written.

Check out my art journey on Instagram and at my Mixed Media Art gallery here at Layered Pages! My wish is for you to be inspired and encouraged.

Weird Wednesday: An Exploration of Our Quirky World

Strange Traditions and Practices of the Victorians

I am delighted to welcome you to “Weird Wednesday,” a series that explores the quirky side of our universe.

We live in an extraordinary quirky world that often times we forget to pause in our busy lives to notice. During these times many cannot venture outside-another great reason to pick up a book-so we are bringing our explorations to you. Today, I’m exploring a bit about the strange traditions, and practices of the Victorians.

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During the Victorian era, how a person died was important to them. Especially one’s last words on this earth. Those words were thought to be believed because they were about to meet their maker. A “truth-detector” of the heart-if you will. This was a lesson for the living and for the love one’s gathered around the death bed. Afterall, why would the dying bear false witness? Those last moments were critical for the persons spiritual state. Still applies today, really.

It was important for the dying to be surrounded by their love ones in the last moments of their life. Imagine a soldier dying on the battle fields without that opportunity. How alone and scared they must have felt.  Many of the soldiers during the American Civil War were young boys crying out to their mothers.

In general, Victorians had a high mortality rate. Not only due to war but the spread of disease, living in poor conditions and lack of proper hygiene and sanitation, one might say. Also, arsenic and white lead were used in many Victorian papers as dyes which lead to widespread health issues for the workers in the industry and possibly for people in the homes.

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One of the remaining artifacts from Victorians is photographs of their dead. It may sound morbid to us in today’s society but it brought their love ones’ comfort and it gave them a sense of closeness to their deceased love ones. During the first half of the 19th century, photography was a new medium, and it was an exciting way to capture life’s moments. Alas, many did not have immediate access to photography or the money, so they had to make it count. Usually during that time, only people with means could afford such luxury. I can’t imagine the task of staging a deceased person’s body for such an event of taking a photo. Especially because child mortality rates were so high during the Victorian age. This led to the practice of post-mortem photography and I’ve come across a lot of this subject. Though sad, and at times seen as morbid, these photos were the only way to record a love one’s existence. However, I hear it was easier because in those times, a person had to remain very still due to the slow shutter speed of the cameras.

Did you know that the Victorians also made “death mask” to remember the dead? They took death very seriously if they wanted to be surrounded by such mementos. According to the 19th-century collector Laurence Hutton, a death mask “must, of necessity, be absolutely true to nature.” The Victorians were not the first to use this practice of remembering people. Ancient civilizations made mask as well. The Egyptian masks are a prime example.

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I don’t think I will go into how the Victorians made their mask, at the moment. My stomach can’t take it. Let’s take a quick look at other strange-like practices the Victorians did. You’ll notice that many of them are still done in today’s world.

One of my favorite things to do living in the South is to tour Victorian Homes, Plantations and Halls. I’ve learned about so much history and how people lived, through this experience. One of the things I’ve noticed is that you’ll see picture frames with hair. The hair is often arranged in a wreath style manner. The first time I ever saw one, I was intrigued and wanted to find out more about this practice. This was another way to commemorate the deceased. Women would also keep clippings of their friend’s hair in scrapbooks and men would wear “watch fobs” made of their wives’ hair. Victorians made all sorts of decorative pieces often from their love ones.

Other examples:

Hats made from taxidermied birds and other animals.

Obsession with stuffing animals.

Hosting mummy unwrapping parties. Okay…

Made and sent strange Christmas cards. (Check out Pinterest for card images)

Body Snatching-In the name of science? This practice became so wide spread that relatives would watch over the graves of the recently deceased.

And so on…

Thank you for exploring this interesting time in history with me!

Stephanie Hopkins

Other Weird Wednesday Posts:  

Weird Wednesday: An Exploration of Our Quirky World

Weird Wednesday: Butterflies

Weird Wednesday: Facts of Daily Life in the 19th-Century England.

Sources:

This republic of Suffering (Death and the American Civil War) by Drew Gilpin Faust

Category:Post-mortem photography

and other independent research…

Cover Crush: Mexican Gothic by Silvia Moreno-Garcia 

Mexican GothicThe Cover: The vibrant colors caught my attention at first. That is a fantastic first impression to the cover. The background, the way the Lady is holding the flowers…this book just bumped up at the top of my wish-list.

The Story: First let’s start with the title. Wow. Wow. I love it. The Gothic Period in History is one of my favorites and the title alone gives meaning to what the story could be about. Does that make sense? Or an atmospheric setting-if you will.

The description of the story sounds engrossing!  A frantic letter-I love letters, Mexican countryside, mysterious doom, an Englishman, chic gowns, madness, high class society, and dark secrets? Yes please!

Stephanie Hopkins

About the Book:

Mexican Gothic by Silvia Moreno-Garcia 

Hardcover, 320 pages

Published June 30th 2020 by Del Rey

NEW YORK TIMES BESTSELLER • An isolated mansion. A chillingly charismatic aristocrat. And a brave socialite drawn to expose their treacherous secrets

After receiving a frantic letter from her newlywed cousin begging for someone to save her from a mysterious doom, Noemí Taboada heads to High Place, a distant house in the Mexican countryside. She’s not sure what she will find – her cousin’s husband, a handsome Englishman, is a stranger, and Noemí knows little about the region.

Noemí is also an unlikely rescuer: She’s a glamorous debutante, and her chic gowns and perfect red lipstick are more suited for cocktail parties than amateur sleuthing. But she’s also tough and smart, with an indomitable will, and she is not afraid: not of her cousin’s new husband, who is both menacing and alluring; not of his father, the ancient patriarch who seems to be fascinated by Noemí; and not even of the house itself, which begins to invade Noemi’s dreams with visions of blood and doom.

Her only ally in this inhospitable abode is the family’s youngest son. Shy and gentle, he seems to want to help Noemí but might also be hiding dark knowledge of his family’s past. For there are many secrets behind the walls of High Place. The family’s once colossal wealth and faded mining empire kept them from prying eyes, but as Noemí digs deeper she unearths stories of violence and madness.

And Noemí, mesmerized by the terrifying yet seductive world of High Place, may soon find it impossible to ever leave this enigmatic house behind.

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